"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Man boobs :(

Mr. Unique

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 16, 2005
Messages
654
Reaction score
2
please dont laugh.

what should I do to get rid of them? what should I eat? what should I avoid? Im am really desperate here ive had them for as long as I could remember im 17 right now and feel like ****.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Skilla_Staz

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 2, 2006
Messages
2,214
Reaction score
10
Age
37
Location
Omaha, Nebraska
Oh lord. I'm going to say it before somebody rips you a new one.

1. Search the threads for similar posts.
2. Search the threads for diet posts.
3. Search the threads for workout posts.
4. Research gynocomastia (or whatever it's called)
5. Do your own research before blindly asking people to tell you what to do.
 

Warboss Alex

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 7, 2005
Messages
4,113
Reaction score
29
diet, weights and cardio - search threads on losing fat.

man boobs (as long as it's not gyno) is just bodyfat which can be lost pretty easily if you put your mind to it. :)
 

grr

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 22, 2005
Messages
224
Reaction score
0
Age
44
Location
Colorado
The guys post about removing a chicken pox scar is looking more and more superficial reading this.

At least you still have your hair. See? people all have **** that's wrong with them, don't stress about it. That just makes it worse. Same advice I gave the other guy: Do the research to see what would fix it, then either fix it or get over it. Sure people might tease and poke fun a bit, but most don't care, and if you confronted them about it with the research you've done about fixing it then they certainly wouldn't look down on you. Being perceived as happy and progressing through life is sooo much more important.

Some humor courses teach you to make a funny joke about it. To draw attention to it so you and the audience become comfortable with it. Your fear just makes it worse. . .
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 15, 2003
Messages
1,652
Reaction score
20
Location
CAN-NUH-DUH
There's gynocomastia and then there's Pseudogynocomastia.

Lay on your back, and press on your nipples.If you feel a hard mass under your nipple, there's nothing you can do about it except have an operation to have the mass removed.

Pseudogynocomastia is fat buildup in the breast tissue and and not the glandular type associated with regular gyno.

Diet and exercise can help reduce this fat.

In the mirror, looking at your profile, your chest should have a nice round curve with your nipples aiming downward. If you have gyno, your nipples will be curving upwards like breasts on a woman.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Paintballguy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2004
Messages
961
Reaction score
16
Location
Maryland
I have gyno also... I want to get the operation, I wish insurance would cover it.
 

Mr. Unique

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 16, 2005
Messages
654
Reaction score
2
I dont feel a thing under my nipples except my ribs. my chest and pecs are soft and they are curvy what does this mean?, what should this mass feel like and how big should it feel?
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 15, 2003
Messages
1,652
Reaction score
20
Location
CAN-NUH-DUH
I think you just have to hit the gym and build up some muscle/lose some fat.

The mass would feel very simmilar to what a girl's boobs would feel like. I'm hoping you know what those feel like lol. It's not hard but not flabby like fat, either. Just sorta has a bit more density then normal flesh.

You don't feel anything, so I think you're ok.

Hit the gym and burn off the "baby fat" like my old man would call it.
 

reyalp

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 14, 2006
Messages
598
Reaction score
1
Location
southern usa
Get your body fat down around 10%, if you still have problems, try some Nolvadex or something.

If those two don't work, surgery is your only option for correcting it. Either that or a man-bra.

lmao

(I laugh cos I have some gyno too)
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 15, 2003
Messages
1,652
Reaction score
20
Location
CAN-NUH-DUH
reyalp said:
, try some Nolvadex or something.
Nolvadex will only help prevent it, but if the mass has already developped, there's nothing you can do.

Taking alot of Chasteberry has simmillar properties as Novaldex. I can't remember off hand what the daily dosage is, but if anyone is looking into reducing estrogen in a natural way, they can look into taking some.

If i recall, small doses will raise estrogen and larger doses will supress it. Weird stuff.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Top