"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mall openers

NewspaperRalph

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i really need better mall openers. becuase mine are lame. :( What's your favorite mall opener that will smooth your way into a conversation?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Fred Da Head

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Don't use openers.

Just notice something funny/interesting/new and comment about it; ask a question; just start a random conversation. Openers rarely come off as natural, and if it's one that the girl has heard before, you've killed your chances before you even started running game proper.
 

gmillar

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"Hi, what's your name?"
Just introduce yourself, ask what's up, questions about her, what she's doing, talk about the mall, any common ground, whatever. This is a skill that comes only with practice. Anything canned or rehearsed is a total waste of time.
 
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