"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Mall Approaches

Crazy Asian

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So today, there was my friend's b-day party at the mall.
It was a scavenger hunt thing so, after i got done, I decided to get some numbers.

First of all, what's up with all the fat chicks..... seriously.
You rarely see a chick that's decent looking.
I mean it's literally like 5% of the girls that i'm actually attracted to.
Most of the hot ones are in groups with other guys.

It was so hard to find a girl that I even wanted to approach.
I got 3 numbers. 2 were people I walked by and 1 was this smoking chick working at scooters. Although i think she was 18+ .... but w/e.
But i realized the mall is a horrible place to meet chicks.
Don't know why so many of you guys are going to the mall for approaches.
Maybe it's cause our malls are sh1tty?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DonJoseCantosie

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Yea buddy, try a different mall. Go to different ones and see which of them have girls who usually will walk alone shopping for something.
 

AznPlaya

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Mall approaches are hella fun, i be doin it atleast once a week :) iz how i met most of my gf's kinda funny :p is only like 10 min away and besides im goin into the fashion field so i gots 2 go check out whas good :D
 

j0n024

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Go to a big city like your state capital or a place that is very very populated, that is where the good malls are at...I mean in my city I have a 1 story mall that is crap...then I went to San Antonio and they had like this 3 story behemoth!
 

tihash

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Agree it all depends on the mall. The mall nearest me is okish, but a short (30 min) drive to a more upscale mall over the bridge in Tampa brings you (during the week) a mostly higher class, hotter (think the type of girl who wears heels with jeans), 25-30 y/o clientele usually alone.

Same way with bookstores, restaurants, etc. I used to work near a mall (difft one) and the Subway restaurant by the mall always had lots of HBs, usually college aged, but another Subway closer to where I worked, but only about 2 miles away, rarely had any HBs.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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