"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mall Approaches

Crazy Asian

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So today, there was my friend's b-day party at the mall.
It was a scavenger hunt thing so, after i got done, I decided to get some numbers.

First of all, what's up with all the fat chicks..... seriously.
You rarely see a chick that's decent looking.
I mean it's literally like 5% of the girls that i'm actually attracted to.
Most of the hot ones are in groups with other guys.

It was so hard to find a girl that I even wanted to approach.
I got 3 numbers. 2 were people I walked by and 1 was this smoking chick working at scooters. Although i think she was 18+ .... but w/e.
But i realized the mall is a horrible place to meet chicks.
Don't know why so many of you guys are going to the mall for approaches.
Maybe it's cause our malls are sh1tty?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DonJoseCantosie

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Yea buddy, try a different mall. Go to different ones and see which of them have girls who usually will walk alone shopping for something.
 

AznPlaya

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Mall approaches are hella fun, i be doin it atleast once a week :) iz how i met most of my gf's kinda funny :p is only like 10 min away and besides im goin into the fashion field so i gots 2 go check out whas good :D
 

j0n024

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Go to a big city like your state capital or a place that is very very populated, that is where the good malls are at...I mean in my city I have a 1 story mall that is crap...then I went to San Antonio and they had like this 3 story behemoth!
 

tihash

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Agree it all depends on the mall. The mall nearest me is okish, but a short (30 min) drive to a more upscale mall over the bridge in Tampa brings you (during the week) a mostly higher class, hotter (think the type of girl who wears heels with jeans), 25-30 y/o clientele usually alone.

Same way with bookstores, restaurants, etc. I used to work near a mall (difft one) and the Subway restaurant by the mall always had lots of HBs, usually college aged, but another Subway closer to where I worked, but only about 2 miles away, rarely had any HBs.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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