"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mall Approaches

Crazy Asian

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So today, there was my friend's b-day party at the mall.
It was a scavenger hunt thing so, after i got done, I decided to get some numbers.

First of all, what's up with all the fat chicks..... seriously.
You rarely see a chick that's decent looking.
I mean it's literally like 5% of the girls that i'm actually attracted to.
Most of the hot ones are in groups with other guys.

It was so hard to find a girl that I even wanted to approach.
I got 3 numbers. 2 were people I walked by and 1 was this smoking chick working at scooters. Although i think she was 18+ .... but w/e.
But i realized the mall is a horrible place to meet chicks.
Don't know why so many of you guys are going to the mall for approaches.
Maybe it's cause our malls are sh1tty?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DonJoseCantosie

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Yea buddy, try a different mall. Go to different ones and see which of them have girls who usually will walk alone shopping for something.
 

AznPlaya

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Mall approaches are hella fun, i be doin it atleast once a week :) iz how i met most of my gf's kinda funny :p is only like 10 min away and besides im goin into the fashion field so i gots 2 go check out whas good :D
 

j0n024

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Go to a big city like your state capital or a place that is very very populated, that is where the good malls are at...I mean in my city I have a 1 story mall that is crap...then I went to San Antonio and they had like this 3 story behemoth!
 

tihash

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Agree it all depends on the mall. The mall nearest me is okish, but a short (30 min) drive to a more upscale mall over the bridge in Tampa brings you (during the week) a mostly higher class, hotter (think the type of girl who wears heels with jeans), 25-30 y/o clientele usually alone.

Same way with bookstores, restaurants, etc. I used to work near a mall (difft one) and the Subway restaurant by the mall always had lots of HBs, usually college aged, but another Subway closer to where I worked, but only about 2 miles away, rarely had any HBs.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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