Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
The article gives lots of reasons for it and they distinguish between pseudogynecomastia and gynecomastia. Interestingly enough they write that overweight men can actually develop breast tissue, elevated estrogen levels play some role in it. Still, it's sad for guys who suffer from that condition.Master Bates said:If that's what the article concludes, then it's not worth reading. If you have "breasts" because you're overweight, then it's because you're FAT, and you just have a fatass chest. Having actual breasts, breast tissue, is called gynecomastia, and aside from steroid use and side effects from some drugs, that's entirely genetic.
Totally true bates. I had it at 13, years before I smoked pot, and I forget the word for it but in the medical community it is classed as a disorder that doesn't have a cause that they know of. Its not like a breast either its hard lumps and tissue under your nips and lower pecs. The surgery is around 2000 just for that, and more for liposuction if there is fatty tissue along with the hard tissue. Some guys just have fat chests but no hard tissue, that could be solved with just liposuction.Master Bates said:If that's what the article concludes, then it's not worth reading. If you have "breasts" because you're overweight, then it's because you're FAT, and you just have a fatass chest. Having actual breasts, breast tissue, is called gynecomastia, and aside from steroid use and side effects from some drugs, that's entirely genetic. Most men with gynecomastia- men who are not overweight- developed it when they were in their teens. This article is retarded.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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how do you know it's not muscle? cause when i tense the top gets all hard and a 'cleft' of some sort forms where i can feel the muscle at the top and fat at the bottom. (which i need to lose) But when im not tense i can't tell the difference as easily.Kerpal said:It just feels like a hard, rubbery ball under the nipples.