You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The article gives lots of reasons for it and they distinguish between pseudogynecomastia and gynecomastia. Interestingly enough they write that overweight men can actually develop breast tissue, elevated estrogen levels play some role in it. Still, it's sad for guys who suffer from that condition.Master Bates said:If that's what the article concludes, then it's not worth reading. If you have "breasts" because you're overweight, then it's because you're FAT, and you just have a fatass chest. Having actual breasts, breast tissue, is called gynecomastia, and aside from steroid use and side effects from some drugs, that's entirely genetic.
Totally true bates. I had it at 13, years before I smoked pot, and I forget the word for it but in the medical community it is classed as a disorder that doesn't have a cause that they know of. Its not like a breast either its hard lumps and tissue under your nips and lower pecs. The surgery is around 2000 just for that, and more for liposuction if there is fatty tissue along with the hard tissue. Some guys just have fat chests but no hard tissue, that could be solved with just liposuction.Master Bates said:If that's what the article concludes, then it's not worth reading. If you have "breasts" because you're overweight, then it's because you're FAT, and you just have a fatass chest. Having actual breasts, breast tissue, is called gynecomastia, and aside from steroid use and side effects from some drugs, that's entirely genetic. Most men with gynecomastia- men who are not overweight- developed it when they were in their teens. This article is retarded.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
how do you know it's not muscle? cause when i tense the top gets all hard and a 'cleft' of some sort forms where i can feel the muscle at the top and fat at the bottom. (which i need to lose) But when im not tense i can't tell the difference as easily.Kerpal said:It just feels like a hard, rubbery ball under the nipples.