"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Making yourself believe you are the prize has gotta be the #1 priority for "inner game"

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The only way to build in a genuine belief that "women are lucky to be with me" is ONLY date women who genuinely feel lucky to be with you.

SLOWLY increase the "quality" of women. Since most dudes WAY OVERESTIMATE their own value, the only way to GENUINELY build this is to date women WAY below your level of desire.
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That strategy could backfire badly. First of all, people in public will look at you funny as a couple if you are grossly mismatched. Having been there and done that, I feel better going out as a single guy by myself and enjoying my own space rather than dating down WAY below a proper type of woman. I'd rather be single with the hope I could get the right woman or have the fantasy of one in my mind then do that. Also, at the end of the day, if it doesn't work out and the ugly woman rejects you, then that type of rejection is 100 times worst because then you can't even succeed with that. It's a bad idea dude.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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corrector said:
That strategy could backfire badly. First of all, people in public will look at you funny as a couple if you are grossly mismatched. Having been there and done that, I feel better going out as a single guy by myself and enjoying my own space rather than dating down WAY below a proper type of woman. I'd rather be single with the hope I could get the right woman or have the fantasy of one in my mind then do that. Also, at the end of the day, if it doesn't work out and the ugly woman rejects you, then that type of rejection is 100 times worst because then you can't even succeed with that. It's a bad idea dude.
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CTFU! This is a very daunting thought. I prefer to aim high as well.
 
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