"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Making yourself believe you are the prize has gotta be the #1 priority for "inner game"

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taiyuu_otoko said:
The only way to build in a genuine belief that "women are lucky to be with me" is ONLY date women who genuinely feel lucky to be with you.

SLOWLY increase the "quality" of women. Since most dudes WAY OVERESTIMATE their own value, the only way to GENUINELY build this is to date women WAY below your level of desire.
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That strategy could backfire badly. First of all, people in public will look at you funny as a couple if you are grossly mismatched. Having been there and done that, I feel better going out as a single guy by myself and enjoying my own space rather than dating down WAY below a proper type of woman. I'd rather be single with the hope I could get the right woman or have the fantasy of one in my mind then do that. Also, at the end of the day, if it doesn't work out and the ugly woman rejects you, then that type of rejection is 100 times worst because then you can't even succeed with that. It's a bad idea dude.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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corrector said:
That strategy could backfire badly. First of all, people in public will look at you funny as a couple if you are grossly mismatched. Having been there and done that, I feel better going out as a single guy by myself and enjoying my own space rather than dating down WAY below a proper type of woman. I'd rather be single with the hope I could get the right woman or have the fantasy of one in my mind then do that. Also, at the end of the day, if it doesn't work out and the ugly woman rejects you, then that type of rejection is 100 times worst because then you can't even succeed with that. It's a bad idea dude.
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CTFU! This is a very daunting thought. I prefer to aim high as well.
 
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