"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Making yourself believe you are the prize has gotta be the #1 priority for "inner game"

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The only way to build in a genuine belief that "women are lucky to be with me" is ONLY date women who genuinely feel lucky to be with you.

SLOWLY increase the "quality" of women. Since most dudes WAY OVERESTIMATE their own value, the only way to GENUINELY build this is to date women WAY below your level of desire.
That strategy could backfire badly. First of all, people in public will look at you funny as a couple if you are grossly mismatched. Having been there and done that, I feel better going out as a single guy by myself and enjoying my own space rather than dating down WAY below a proper type of woman. I'd rather be single with the hope I could get the right woman or have the fantasy of one in my mind then do that. Also, at the end of the day, if it doesn't work out and the ugly woman rejects you, then that type of rejection is 100 times worst because then you can't even succeed with that. It's a bad idea dude.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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That strategy could backfire badly. First of all, people in public will look at you funny as a couple if you are grossly mismatched. Having been there and done that, I feel better going out as a single guy by myself and enjoying my own space rather than dating down WAY below a proper type of woman. I'd rather be single with the hope I could get the right woman or have the fantasy of one in my mind then do that. Also, at the end of the day, if it doesn't work out and the ugly woman rejects you, then that type of rejection is 100 times worst because then you can't even succeed with that. It's a bad idea dude.
CTFU! This is a very daunting thought. I prefer to aim high as well.
 
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