"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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making the most of this situation...

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OK i'll keep it short and sweet - So the latest target girl (not a oneitis by any means) who i have been kind of "on and off" with for a bit, just was rushed to hospital last night for an operation, relatively minor and is fine now just has to rest for a while...how would you guys reccomend i make the most of this situation?

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Are you trying to take advantage of a person in a hospital?

Maybe you should just sit and think about that for a second.


As for something you should do, I'd just send a card.
 
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ha no of course not, i'm just talking a card/flowers whatever along those lines...
 
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lol

I'm glad you realized I was kidding.

But still. How much advice can you really need for something like this? There isn't much you can do.

Maybe write on the card, "Remember, once you get out, I'm always availiable to help with physical therapy! ^_^"
 
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