"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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making the most of this situation...

djaus111000

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OK i'll keep it short and sweet - So the latest target girl (not a oneitis by any means) who i have been kind of "on and off" with for a bit, just was rushed to hospital last night for an operation, relatively minor and is fine now just has to rest for a while...how would you guys reccomend i make the most of this situation?

Thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Are you trying to take advantage of a person in a hospital?

Maybe you should just sit and think about that for a second.


As for something you should do, I'd just send a card.
 

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ha no of course not, i'm just talking a card/flowers whatever along those lines...
 

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lol

I'm glad you realized I was kidding.

But still. How much advice can you really need for something like this? There isn't much you can do.

Maybe write on the card, "Remember, once you get out, I'm always availiable to help with physical therapy! ^_^"
 
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