"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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making the most of this situation...

djaus111000

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OK i'll keep it short and sweet - So the latest target girl (not a oneitis by any means) who i have been kind of "on and off" with for a bit, just was rushed to hospital last night for an operation, relatively minor and is fine now just has to rest for a while...how would you guys reccomend i make the most of this situation?

Thanks
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Are you trying to take advantage of a person in a hospital?

Maybe you should just sit and think about that for a second.


As for something you should do, I'd just send a card.
 

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ha no of course not, i'm just talking a card/flowers whatever along those lines...
 

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lol

I'm glad you realized I was kidding.

But still. How much advice can you really need for something like this? There isn't much you can do.

Maybe write on the card, "Remember, once you get out, I'm always availiable to help with physical therapy! ^_^"
 
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