"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Making the girl feel special

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Shyguy2003

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Depends how well you know her. Personally, I would treat her like she aint such hot **** if you aren't dating or anything. If you are with her, then you want to make her feel special OCCASIONALLY, like birthdays and ****. Don't do any of that disney movie **** everyday though.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don Juanabbe

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IMO, you cannot make a woman feel special unless you first establish yourself as someone whom she needs to feel approval from. If she doesn't at first highly respect you and want your approval, then you won't be able to make her feel special. If she doesn't respect you then it won't really matter.
 
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