"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Making the girl feel special

Shyguy2003

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Depends how well you know her. Personally, I would treat her like she aint such hot **** if you aren't dating or anything. If you are with her, then you want to make her feel special OCCASIONALLY, like birthdays and ****. Don't do any of that disney movie **** everyday though.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Don Juanabbe

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IMO, you cannot make a woman feel special unless you first establish yourself as someone whom she needs to feel approval from. If she doesn't at first highly respect you and want your approval, then you won't be able to make her feel special. If she doesn't respect you then it won't really matter.
 
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