Jerry Maguire
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 4, 2005
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First off; I know I'm a good looking guy, with an interesting personality.
Arrogance aside, I know that there are a lot of not-so-good looking guys with 2d personalities who have lots of hot girls.
In the past, I've been a shy guy because I've been afraid of what might happen, rather than going for what could happen.
The past does not equal the future, I want to get out more, meet more people; guys and girls (not in a bisexual way, lol).
I know that social skills are best learned through experience and that most of these posts are worthless if you don't actually have something to work on or improve on. At the moment, I'm not afraid to say that I have no or very limited social skills.
So, after I get over my minor surgery, I'll be back into the gym, I'll be getting a job and I'll be getting out and about with plenty of opportunities to meet interesting new people.
This, to me, is no new idea. For ages I've wanted more friends, and more women in my life. But I didn't take the first step.
I've only asked out three girls in my life. (Let's make this clear, I don't want to ask 50 girls out just for the sake of it, I only want to approach them if I think I'll be interested.)
So, is the first step (approaching a girl to get her number, or having a friendly chat with a guy) just a matter of grabbing my balls and not caring what they think of me?
I was also thinking that first, I should look at my morals; how should I treat these people, how should I treat myself (both with respect) and so on. Before I get down to actually talking. I don't want to be misrepresented, therefore if I do use some techniques from here, they will be used in a way that won't make me, or anyone else, feel bad/unfulfilled.
I realise I've rambled, so here is the concise part of my post; is the first approach merely a matter of grabbing your balls and letting go of your fears?
Also, do you think about your morals frequently?
Do any of you actually have morals relating to DJing? lol, if so, please share.
Arrogance aside, I know that there are a lot of not-so-good looking guys with 2d personalities who have lots of hot girls.
In the past, I've been a shy guy because I've been afraid of what might happen, rather than going for what could happen.
The past does not equal the future, I want to get out more, meet more people; guys and girls (not in a bisexual way, lol).
I know that social skills are best learned through experience and that most of these posts are worthless if you don't actually have something to work on or improve on. At the moment, I'm not afraid to say that I have no or very limited social skills.
So, after I get over my minor surgery, I'll be back into the gym, I'll be getting a job and I'll be getting out and about with plenty of opportunities to meet interesting new people.
This, to me, is no new idea. For ages I've wanted more friends, and more women in my life. But I didn't take the first step.
I've only asked out three girls in my life. (Let's make this clear, I don't want to ask 50 girls out just for the sake of it, I only want to approach them if I think I'll be interested.)
So, is the first step (approaching a girl to get her number, or having a friendly chat with a guy) just a matter of grabbing my balls and not caring what they think of me?
I was also thinking that first, I should look at my morals; how should I treat these people, how should I treat myself (both with respect) and so on. Before I get down to actually talking. I don't want to be misrepresented, therefore if I do use some techniques from here, they will be used in a way that won't make me, or anyone else, feel bad/unfulfilled.
I realise I've rambled, so here is the concise part of my post; is the first approach merely a matter of grabbing your balls and letting go of your fears?
Also, do you think about your morals frequently?
Do any of you actually have morals relating to DJing? lol, if so, please share.