"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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making rejection known or not?

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so i asked this girl if she was free the next week for dinner..

girl: I'm not sure! Anyway, I can't eat! No money :'(! Need to wait for this month's paycheck!

how do you guys deal with rejection like that? I was thinking of sending a "i'll take that as a no then." or do I just ignore it completely and move on?
 

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Why you asking her out to dinner? Do something cheap and low investment. Like coffee or a walk in the park. Something along those lines. If she makes up another excuse it's obvious rejection and move on.
 
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you do nothing and move on ... she has 0 or very low interest .

an interested girl would have counteroffer or propose something else.

she is telling you NO. politely
 
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I didn't see a flat rejection here. Personally, I would say "Damn that's rough, I've been there. Let me know when that big check comes in so you can treat me to a fancy steak dinner!"

Keep it light, be polite, put the ball in her court and leave it at that. IMO I never like to show that I feel rejected, I keep the door open.

Now you're free to focus on gaming other women! See how her rejection wasn't that rough when you frame it that way? I agree with Evan, coffee dates or even better a drink or two is better than dinner.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dinner is an innocent invite. if she was interested she would have accepted or countered. if you need to respond just say "th e only thing I charge for cooking dinner is the red box movie" , or something similar. but she most likely doesn't want to pursue
 
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apprenticedj said:
I didn't see a flat rejection here. Personally, I would say "Damn that's rough, I've been there. Let me know when that big check comes in so you can treat me to a fancy steak dinner!"

Keep it light, be polite, put the ball in her court and leave it at that. IMO I never like to show that I feel rejected, I keep the door open.

Now you're free to focus on gaming other women! See how her rejection wasn't that rough when you frame it that way? I agree with Evan, coffee dates or even better a drink or two is better than dinner.
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Excellent answer ... Better then nothing imo.
 
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