“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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making rejection known or not?

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so i asked this girl if she was free the next week for dinner..

girl: I'm not sure! Anyway, I can't eat! No money :'(! Need to wait for this month's paycheck!

how do you guys deal with rejection like that? I was thinking of sending a "i'll take that as a no then." or do I just ignore it completely and move on?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Why you asking her out to dinner? Do something cheap and low investment. Like coffee or a walk in the park. Something along those lines. If she makes up another excuse it's obvious rejection and move on.
 
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you do nothing and move on ... she has 0 or very low interest .

an interested girl would have counteroffer or propose something else.

she is telling you NO. politely
 
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I didn't see a flat rejection here. Personally, I would say "Damn that's rough, I've been there. Let me know when that big check comes in so you can treat me to a fancy steak dinner!"

Keep it light, be polite, put the ball in her court and leave it at that. IMO I never like to show that I feel rejected, I keep the door open.

Now you're free to focus on gaming other women! See how her rejection wasn't that rough when you frame it that way? I agree with Evan, coffee dates or even better a drink or two is better than dinner.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Dinner is an innocent invite. if she was interested she would have accepted or countered. if you need to respond just say "th e only thing I charge for cooking dinner is the red box movie" , or something similar. but she most likely doesn't want to pursue
 
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apprenticedj said:
I didn't see a flat rejection here. Personally, I would say "Damn that's rough, I've been there. Let me know when that big check comes in so you can treat me to a fancy steak dinner!"

Keep it light, be polite, put the ball in her court and leave it at that. IMO I never like to show that I feel rejected, I keep the door open.

Now you're free to focus on gaming other women! See how her rejection wasn't that rough when you frame it that way? I agree with Evan, coffee dates or even better a drink or two is better than dinner.
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Excellent answer ... Better then nothing imo.
 
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