"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mr_guido

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Hey everyone,
recently, I was at a party, and while on a walk, a girl (actually she's a good friend of mine) and I were sort of lagging behind. So we stopped and were talking, and then she came closer and forced a huge kiss on me. I didn't really like her style of making out, so I came out of it after probably 4 seconds. Plus it was a little weird as she was a good friend. Anyways, on our way back, another girl and I were ahead of everyone, and pretty well the same thing happened, it started with her giving me a spearmint, and then telling me that her breath was fresh (meanwhile I was thinking 'where is this going'....:confused:) and I answered back with the same thing, only to have her say "well, you should make out with me right now." So we did, and it was awesome, as I really like her and we've been friends for years. However, the other girl who kissed me saw us, and now she's a little pissed at me. How do I fix this? Thanks guys :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Pdizzzzzzle

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"How do I fix this?"
You seem happy with the second girl. Don't worry about the first. She jumped you outta the blue, your kiss with her was pointless.
 

mr_guido

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Ha ha! Definitely the second one. :yes: However, I'm good friends with the first one and don't want her feelings hurt.
 

PDubb75

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So use the "go-to" saying that girls use in the same situation. "I don't want to ruin our friendship".
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mr_guido

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Ok man :D thanks. I'll try that.
 
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