"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hey everyone,
recently, I was at a party, and while on a walk, a girl (actually she's a good friend of mine) and I were sort of lagging behind. So we stopped and were talking, and then she came closer and forced a huge kiss on me. I didn't really like her style of making out, so I came out of it after probably 4 seconds. Plus it was a little weird as she was a good friend. Anyways, on our way back, another girl and I were ahead of everyone, and pretty well the same thing happened, it started with her giving me a spearmint, and then telling me that her breath was fresh (meanwhile I was thinking 'where is this going'....:confused:) and I answered back with the same thing, only to have her say "well, you should make out with me right now." So we did, and it was awesome, as I really like her and we've been friends for years. However, the other girl who kissed me saw us, and now she's a little pissed at me. How do I fix this? Thanks guys :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"How do I fix this?"
You seem happy with the second girl. Don't worry about the first. She jumped you outta the blue, your kiss with her was pointless.
 
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Ha ha! Definitely the second one. :yes: However, I'm good friends with the first one and don't want her feelings hurt.
 
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So use the "go-to" saying that girls use in the same situation. "I don't want to ruin our friendship".
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ok man :D thanks. I'll try that.
 
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