"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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mr_guido

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Hey everyone,
recently, I was at a party, and while on a walk, a girl (actually she's a good friend of mine) and I were sort of lagging behind. So we stopped and were talking, and then she came closer and forced a huge kiss on me. I didn't really like her style of making out, so I came out of it after probably 4 seconds. Plus it was a little weird as she was a good friend. Anyways, on our way back, another girl and I were ahead of everyone, and pretty well the same thing happened, it started with her giving me a spearmint, and then telling me that her breath was fresh (meanwhile I was thinking 'where is this going'....:confused:) and I answered back with the same thing, only to have her say "well, you should make out with me right now." So we did, and it was awesome, as I really like her and we've been friends for years. However, the other girl who kissed me saw us, and now she's a little pissed at me. How do I fix this? Thanks guys :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Pdizzzzzzle

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"How do I fix this?"
You seem happy with the second girl. Don't worry about the first. She jumped you outta the blue, your kiss with her was pointless.
 

mr_guido

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Ha ha! Definitely the second one. :yes: However, I'm good friends with the first one and don't want her feelings hurt.
 

PDubb75

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So use the "go-to" saying that girls use in the same situation. "I don't want to ruin our friendship".
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mr_guido

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Ok man :D thanks. I'll try that.
 
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