"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Making out tips?
- Thread starter mangalho
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
But the most important thing is making sure the kiss isn't sloppy and wet. Make sure your mouth is pretty dry. Also, don't go in with your tongue first. Lips, then tongue. Finally, your hands have to do something. The classic (as seen on TV) is one hand holding the back of her head as the other is on the small of her back...
The first time i kissed a girl i was in there like speedy gonzarles. My tougue was all over the place!
I learned my lesson. Though she didn't complain, & i was young & nieve, but still.. I'm sure it wasn't that pleasent.
Yeah, when you go in for the kiss.. remember.. SLOWLY. & softly kiss with your lips. do this for a few seconds, then pull back & stare into her eyes. The go back in SLOWLY. Again, press your lips against hers & SLOWLY open your mouth & SLOWLY ease your tougue in.
Of course theres no set way to do this, but this is vague advice really, & you did ask. But the only thing that i think is important is to TAKE IT SLOWLY.
"slow & steady wins the race"
Oh, & when you're touguing her, don't do the washing machine & go round & round. explore. take your tougue in & out occasionally, etc.
It should come naturally after a minute or two. go with the flow. A really good make session shouldn''t involve any concious thought of what you're doing. just embrace the moment & let go to the pleasure.
hope thats aswered your question.
familyguyfan
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 2, 2005
- Messages
- 551
- Reaction score
- 0
Try searching for kissing tips instead of making out tips.Originally posted by mangalho
thanks, but google only turns up stuff like " how to be good at MAKING sushi " or how to put OUT your own book. Besides, those topics were awsome but I just can't find them anywhere
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.