"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Making out tips?
- Thread starter mangalho
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
But the most important thing is making sure the kiss isn't sloppy and wet. Make sure your mouth is pretty dry. Also, don't go in with your tongue first. Lips, then tongue. Finally, your hands have to do something. The classic (as seen on TV) is one hand holding the back of her head as the other is on the small of her back...
The first time i kissed a girl i was in there like speedy gonzarles. My tougue was all over the place!
I learned my lesson. Though she didn't complain, & i was young & nieve, but still.. I'm sure it wasn't that pleasent.
Yeah, when you go in for the kiss.. remember.. SLOWLY. & softly kiss with your lips. do this for a few seconds, then pull back & stare into her eyes. The go back in SLOWLY. Again, press your lips against hers & SLOWLY open your mouth & SLOWLY ease your tougue in.
Of course theres no set way to do this, but this is vague advice really, & you did ask. But the only thing that i think is important is to TAKE IT SLOWLY.
"slow & steady wins the race"
Oh, & when you're touguing her, don't do the washing machine & go round & round. explore. take your tougue in & out occasionally, etc.
It should come naturally after a minute or two. go with the flow. A really good make session shouldn''t involve any concious thought of what you're doing. just embrace the moment & let go to the pleasure.
hope thats aswered your question.
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Try searching for kissing tips instead of making out tips.Originally posted by mangalho
thanks, but google only turns up stuff like " how to be good at MAKING sushi " or how to put OUT your own book. Besides, those topics were awsome but I just can't find them anywhere
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.