"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Making out tips?
- Thread starter mangalho
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
But the most important thing is making sure the kiss isn't sloppy and wet. Make sure your mouth is pretty dry. Also, don't go in with your tongue first. Lips, then tongue. Finally, your hands have to do something. The classic (as seen on TV) is one hand holding the back of her head as the other is on the small of her back...
The first time i kissed a girl i was in there like speedy gonzarles. My tougue was all over the place!
I learned my lesson. Though she didn't complain, & i was young & nieve, but still.. I'm sure it wasn't that pleasent.
Yeah, when you go in for the kiss.. remember.. SLOWLY. & softly kiss with your lips. do this for a few seconds, then pull back & stare into her eyes. The go back in SLOWLY. Again, press your lips against hers & SLOWLY open your mouth & SLOWLY ease your tougue in.
Of course theres no set way to do this, but this is vague advice really, & you did ask. But the only thing that i think is important is to TAKE IT SLOWLY.
"slow & steady wins the race"
Oh, & when you're touguing her, don't do the washing machine & go round & round. explore. take your tougue in & out occasionally, etc.
It should come naturally after a minute or two. go with the flow. A really good make session shouldn''t involve any concious thought of what you're doing. just embrace the moment & let go to the pleasure.
hope thats aswered your question.
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Try searching for kissing tips instead of making out tips.Originally posted by mangalho
thanks, but google only turns up stuff like " how to be good at MAKING sushi " or how to put OUT your own book. Besides, those topics were awsome but I just can't find them anywhere
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.