I just wanted tips on how to be even better in bed. My girl said she never reached orgasm before through intercourse, only through oral, but I can't achieve either with her! My fingers get really tired when I try and I switch hands but I dunno... any advice? Any tips on when I go down on her too?
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
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Making her orgasm... or other sex advice
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Go read my post there. If you can't get her off like that, you're in trouble. But just too add.... there's ton's of info on the g-spot, it's real and they love it, you can google it, but here's how to find it. Put your finger in her about half way, move your finger is f you were motioning somewhere to "come here", feel for a rigid spot on the upper wall, maybe even bump..rub there at different paces while you are licking her cl!t. Hopefully, you have been focusing on her cl!t before, or that would explain the lack of orgasm. It's true, your hands sometimes do get tired, but it's part of it, so get used to it. The best i have found to get women off with sex, unless you're hung like a donkey, is to go down on them first, get them off, then start to have Seks. The best position to hit the g is like missionary, but put her legs on your shoulders and penetrate at an upward angle. You should rub her cl!t while having seks since lots of women can't get off without a lil cl!t stimulation.
Go read my post there. If you can't get her off like that, you're in trouble. But just too add.... there's ton's of info on the g-spot, it's real and they love it, you can google it, but here's how to find it. Put your finger in her about half way, move your finger is f you were motioning somewhere to "come here", feel for a rigid spot on the upper wall, maybe even bump..rub there at different paces while you are licking her cl!t. Hopefully, you have been focusing on her cl!t before, or that would explain the lack of orgasm. It's true, your hands sometimes do get tired, but it's part of it, so get used to it. The best i have found to get women off with sex, unless you're hung like a donkey, is to go down on them first, get them off, then start to have Seks. The best position to hit the g is like missionary, but put her legs on your shoulders and penetrate at an upward angle. You should rub her cl!t while having seks since lots of women can't get off without a lil cl!t stimulation.
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Put your finger in her about half way, move your finger is f you were motioning somewhere to "come here", feel for a rigid spot on the upper wall, maybe even bump..rub there at different paces while you are licking her cl!t.
agreed.
Also, move your body down a little so that you get a better angle with your fingers. It's hard to get deep enough inside her with fingers when your torso is high enough to kiss her on the mouth. If she is lying down, move yourself down as though you were going to kiss her breasts. Now you can bend your elbow and keep your wrist and fingers fairly straight, reaching deep inside of her without getting cramped fingers or wrist.
agreed.
Also, move your body down a little so that you get a better angle with your fingers. It's hard to get deep enough inside her with fingers when your torso is high enough to kiss her on the mouth. If she is lying down, move yourself down as though you were going to kiss her breasts. Now you can bend your elbow and keep your wrist and fingers fairly straight, reaching deep inside of her without getting cramped fingers or wrist.
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I totally agree with Drewskie. I personally don't like it when I get sucked right away. I need to be teased for a while. Girls have this way, way more then guys. If you start to lick her **** immediately it will probably feel really horrible for her. Try to tease her as long as possible. Try give as much attention to her whole body as possible. Just like Drewskie said. Give gentle kisses on her belly, inner tighs and just outside her vagina. She will go insane in a positive way. :yes: After that do whatever Drewskie said you should do.
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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And whenever you have sex with her, try to stimulate her **** with you fingers once in a while. I probably can't say **** here. Weird, I can say the word elbow and this is also a body part.