I just wanted tips on how to be even better in bed. My girl said she never reached orgasm before through intercourse, only through oral, but I can't achieve either with her! My fingers get really tired when I try and I switch hands but I dunno... any advice? Any tips on when I go down on her too?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Making her orgasm... or other sex advice
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155908
Go read my post there. If you can't get her off like that, you're in trouble. But just too add.... there's ton's of info on the g-spot, it's real and they love it, you can google it, but here's how to find it. Put your finger in her about half way, move your finger is f you were motioning somewhere to "come here", feel for a rigid spot on the upper wall, maybe even bump..rub there at different paces while you are licking her cl!t. Hopefully, you have been focusing on her cl!t before, or that would explain the lack of orgasm. It's true, your hands sometimes do get tired, but it's part of it, so get used to it. The best i have found to get women off with sex, unless you're hung like a donkey, is to go down on them first, get them off, then start to have Seks. The best position to hit the g is like missionary, but put her legs on your shoulders and penetrate at an upward angle. You should rub her cl!t while having seks since lots of women can't get off without a lil cl!t stimulation.
Go read my post there. If you can't get her off like that, you're in trouble. But just too add.... there's ton's of info on the g-spot, it's real and they love it, you can google it, but here's how to find it. Put your finger in her about half way, move your finger is f you were motioning somewhere to "come here", feel for a rigid spot on the upper wall, maybe even bump..rub there at different paces while you are licking her cl!t. Hopefully, you have been focusing on her cl!t before, or that would explain the lack of orgasm. It's true, your hands sometimes do get tired, but it's part of it, so get used to it. The best i have found to get women off with sex, unless you're hung like a donkey, is to go down on them first, get them off, then start to have Seks. The best position to hit the g is like missionary, but put her legs on your shoulders and penetrate at an upward angle. You should rub her cl!t while having seks since lots of women can't get off without a lil cl!t stimulation.
Bible_Belt
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Put your finger in her about half way, move your finger is f you were motioning somewhere to "come here", feel for a rigid spot on the upper wall, maybe even bump..rub there at different paces while you are licking her cl!t.
agreed.
Also, move your body down a little so that you get a better angle with your fingers. It's hard to get deep enough inside her with fingers when your torso is high enough to kiss her on the mouth. If she is lying down, move yourself down as though you were going to kiss her breasts. Now you can bend your elbow and keep your wrist and fingers fairly straight, reaching deep inside of her without getting cramped fingers or wrist.
agreed.
Also, move your body down a little so that you get a better angle with your fingers. It's hard to get deep enough inside her with fingers when your torso is high enough to kiss her on the mouth. If she is lying down, move yourself down as though you were going to kiss her breasts. Now you can bend your elbow and keep your wrist and fingers fairly straight, reaching deep inside of her without getting cramped fingers or wrist.
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I totally agree with Drewskie. I personally don't like it when I get sucked right away. I need to be teased for a while. Girls have this way, way more then guys. If you start to lick her **** immediately it will probably feel really horrible for her. Try to tease her as long as possible. Try give as much attention to her whole body as possible. Just like Drewskie said. Give gentle kisses on her belly, inner tighs and just outside her vagina. She will go insane in a positive way. :yes: After that do whatever Drewskie said you should do.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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And whenever you have sex with her, try to stimulate her **** with you fingers once in a while. I probably can't say **** here. Weird, I can say the word elbow and this is also a body part.