Making her mad again

[Alehiokos]

Hey guys!

Straight to the point..2 years ago I (28 then) had a side chick (21) where we had amazing f*cks together. She knew she was a side and all.

Fast forward to today, where we stopped seeing each other almost after 1 year cause got into a "serious" relationship. Of course she tries to keep me as orbiter, giving hints and all, she just never succumbs again. Lately she has started to sending me msg like " you've never taken me for a ride with your new bike" or "he had amazing sex back then, and now youu should see what I've learned" and stuff like that. She still won't succumb or let herself be seduced, she plays the "moral high ground" card now that she has a bf.. But she acts so F hungry.

My bet is that she misses the tension/sex we had and she cannot find it in her bf now, so she reminisces.

How do I make her mad about it? I want to see her "suffer" in her moral highground.

Lovely Day,

 

[BPH]

Don't.

Judge her by actions, and not just her words.

She can tell you about all the dirty fantasies she wants. But the fact is, she's dating this other guy, and she is not straying to continue sleeping with you.

Don't worry about her, meet other women, and if she misses you enough or her boyfriend isn't satisfying her, she'll come back.

 

[Clockwerk50]

Mad about what?

She’s someone you had a strong sexual dynamic with in the past, who is now in a relationship but still occasionally reaches out with nostalgic, lightly suggestive messages while maintaining boundaries.

The idea is to not chase or push for a reaction, but to stay indirect and not engage in a way that signals neediness or emotional dependence. You don’t try to escalate or extract something from her messages. If anything ever reopens, it has to come from her choosing it on her own, not from you trying to pull it out of her.