"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Making her kiss you first

Prodoge

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Hey guys,

the other day, Hitch was on TV and it came to the first kiss part. Smith states that for the first kiss, you should go 90% of the way and let her go the last 10%. BS or legit ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Better to look at it as giving her the opportunity to go that last 10%.

The whole stopping thing gets around in the dating advice world. It's supposed to maybe generate excitement and maybe anticipation.

And like most things, sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't.
 

marmel75

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It's irrelevant. You worry about way too many things that aren't important to any of this.
 

Alvafe

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It's irrelevant. You worry about way too many things that aren't important to any of this.
true, but remember why guys look for things like that, it show then a step by step thing to do, and in doing so make then feel confident.

is all about the mind thinking he knows what he should do and if he follow the steps he won't screw up.
 

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I state that it's not that damn important. I state that you should always expect loss and always appreciate the wins. I state that independent men don't need other men to tell them what to do. I state that you should listen to yourself instead of everyone else. Even though it would be ironic if you listened to me about that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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grayclif

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Just kiss her already. Best to do it after you have initiated lots of kino and at around the half way point of the date. If she resists then you know to direct your interests elsewhere.
 

marmel75

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true, but remember why guys look for things like that, it show then a step by step thing to do, and in doing so make then feel confident.

is all about the mind thinking he knows what he should do and if he follow the steps he won't screw up.
If you need that to feel confident you've got a whole lot more pressing issues than having her kiss you first.
 
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