Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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This chick was a ***** to me and hung up on me n ****.

So I'm wondering how I'd go about making her apologetic without being a wussy cry baby about it. I'm not actually pissed, like I dont give a ****. But if I wanna get in her pants, I need to be able to show her who has higher value. And if she thinks she can treat me like that, she thinks she has higher value.

So I guess hte question is how do I go about DHV next time I'm around her. Should I ignore her? Should I act like nothign happened? Should I act totally pissed?

What do you think?


Thanks for the input! :rock:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This chick dissed you and now you want to try get in her pants... hmmmm

If you pay her any mind whatsoever after that, then it communicates that she has the higher value... the only way you can communicate any kind of value is to be seen fvckin' other girls
 

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Ashley Chuckles said:
This chick dissed you and now you want to try get in her pants... hmmmm

If you pay her any mind whatsoever after that, then it communicates that she has the higher value... the only way you can communicate any kind of value is to be seen fvckin' other girls

Or ignoring her and playing the game with other chicks? Sort of the same thing on a lower scale...

And I dont want in her pants because she dissed me

thanks for the reply
 

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Embrace said:
This chick was a ***** to me and hung up on me n ****.

So I'm wondering how I'd go about making her apologetic without being a wussy cry baby about it. I'm not actually pissed, like I dont give a ****. But if I wanna get in her pants, I need to be able to show her who has higher value. And if she thinks she can treat me like that, she thinks she has higher value.

So I guess hte question is how do I go about DHV next time I'm around her. Should I ignore her? Should I act like nothign happened? Should I act totally pissed?

What do you think?


Thanks for the input! :rock:
Game other girls. Act like nothing has happened but dont speak to her. If she talks to you say that you will speak with the likes of her if she apoligises. Basically to DHV make her qaulify to you.

A good way to demonstrate higher value in future is to use qualifier lines.


EG. Once you have established a rapport and see the relative IOIs say:

You: Your a really nice girl but i could never go out with somelike you.
HB: Why?
You: Well you seem like a bad girl and i only go out with nice girls.
HB: I can be nice! Im not bad!


She has just started a qualifer. She is proving to you....

Hope this helps

Sarge On!
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Tomatoes said:
Game other girls. Act like nothing has happened but dont speak to her. If she talks to you say that you will speak with the likes of her if she apoligises. Basically to DHV make her qaulify to you.

A good way to demonstrate higher value in future is to use qualifier lines.


EG. Once you have established a rapport and see the relative IOIs say:

You: Your a really nice girl but i could never go out with somelike you.
HB: Why?
You: Well you seem like a bad girl and i only go out with nice girls.
HB: I can be nice! Im not bad!


She has just started a qualifer. She is proving to you....

Hope this helps

Sarge On!

Thanks man.. that helps a lot. Appreciate it!
 

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Embrace said:
And I dont want in her pants because she dissed me

I know... I'm saying that she disrespected you, yet you still want to get into her pants... as opposed to she dissed you, and NOW you want in her pants

Only time I've ever found that a respectable option was when I didn't have any other options...
 

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Ashley Chuckles said:
I know... I'm saying that she disrespected you, yet you still want to get into her pants... as opposed to she dissed you, and NOW you want in her pants

Only time I've ever found that a respectable option was when I didn't have any other options...

I totally agree.

To be honest I wouldnt mind ****in her, cmon now. But its not like I cant just play my game on any other chicks.

I'm deffinitley not only trying to **** her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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