"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Making her feel sorry?

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This chick was a ***** to me and hung up on me n ****.

So I'm wondering how I'd go about making her apologetic without being a wussy cry baby about it. I'm not actually pissed, like I dont give a ****. But if I wanna get in her pants, I need to be able to show her who has higher value. And if she thinks she can treat me like that, she thinks she has higher value.

So I guess hte question is how do I go about DHV next time I'm around her. Should I ignore her? Should I act like nothign happened? Should I act totally pissed?

What do you think?


Thanks for the input! :rock:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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This chick dissed you and now you want to try get in her pants... hmmmm

If you pay her any mind whatsoever after that, then it communicates that she has the higher value... the only way you can communicate any kind of value is to be seen fvckin' other girls
 
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Ashley Chuckles said:
This chick dissed you and now you want to try get in her pants... hmmmm

If you pay her any mind whatsoever after that, then it communicates that she has the higher value... the only way you can communicate any kind of value is to be seen fvckin' other girls
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Or ignoring her and playing the game with other chicks? Sort of the same thing on a lower scale...

And I dont want in her pants because she dissed me

thanks for the reply
 
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Embrace said:
This chick was a ***** to me and hung up on me n ****.

So I'm wondering how I'd go about making her apologetic without being a wussy cry baby about it. I'm not actually pissed, like I dont give a ****. But if I wanna get in her pants, I need to be able to show her who has higher value. And if she thinks she can treat me like that, she thinks she has higher value.

So I guess hte question is how do I go about DHV next time I'm around her. Should I ignore her? Should I act like nothign happened? Should I act totally pissed?

What do you think?


Thanks for the input! :rock:
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Game other girls. Act like nothing has happened but dont speak to her. If she talks to you say that you will speak with the likes of her if she apoligises. Basically to DHV make her qaulify to you.

A good way to demonstrate higher value in future is to use qualifier lines.


EG. Once you have established a rapport and see the relative IOIs say:

You: Your a really nice girl but i could never go out with somelike you.
HB: Why?
You: Well you seem like a bad girl and i only go out with nice girls.
HB: I can be nice! Im not bad!


She has just started a qualifer. She is proving to you....

Hope this helps

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tomatoes said:
Game other girls. Act like nothing has happened but dont speak to her. If she talks to you say that you will speak with the likes of her if she apoligises. Basically to DHV make her qaulify to you.

A good way to demonstrate higher value in future is to use qualifier lines.


EG. Once you have established a rapport and see the relative IOIs say:

You: Your a really nice girl but i could never go out with somelike you.
HB: Why?
You: Well you seem like a bad girl and i only go out with nice girls.
HB: I can be nice! Im not bad!


She has just started a qualifer. She is proving to you....

Hope this helps

Sarge On!
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Thanks man.. that helps a lot. Appreciate it!
 
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And I dont want in her pants because she dissed me
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I know... I'm saying that she disrespected you, yet you still want to get into her pants... as opposed to she dissed you, and NOW you want in her pants

Only time I've ever found that a respectable option was when I didn't have any other options...
 
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Ashley Chuckles said:
I know... I'm saying that she disrespected you, yet you still want to get into her pants... as opposed to she dissed you, and NOW you want in her pants

Only time I've ever found that a respectable option was when I didn't have any other options...
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I totally agree.

To be honest I wouldnt mind ****in her, cmon now. But its not like I cant just play my game on any other chicks.

I'm deffinitley not only trying to **** her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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