Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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This chick was a ***** to me and hung up on me n ****.

So I'm wondering how I'd go about making her apologetic without being a wussy cry baby about it. I'm not actually pissed, like I dont give a ****. But if I wanna get in her pants, I need to be able to show her who has higher value. And if she thinks she can treat me like that, she thinks she has higher value.

So I guess hte question is how do I go about DHV next time I'm around her. Should I ignore her? Should I act like nothign happened? Should I act totally pissed?

What do you think?


Thanks for the input! :rock:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This chick dissed you and now you want to try get in her pants... hmmmm

If you pay her any mind whatsoever after that, then it communicates that she has the higher value... the only way you can communicate any kind of value is to be seen fvckin' other girls
 

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Ashley Chuckles said:
This chick dissed you and now you want to try get in her pants... hmmmm

If you pay her any mind whatsoever after that, then it communicates that she has the higher value... the only way you can communicate any kind of value is to be seen fvckin' other girls

Or ignoring her and playing the game with other chicks? Sort of the same thing on a lower scale...

And I dont want in her pants because she dissed me

thanks for the reply
 

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Embrace said:
This chick was a ***** to me and hung up on me n ****.

So I'm wondering how I'd go about making her apologetic without being a wussy cry baby about it. I'm not actually pissed, like I dont give a ****. But if I wanna get in her pants, I need to be able to show her who has higher value. And if she thinks she can treat me like that, she thinks she has higher value.

So I guess hte question is how do I go about DHV next time I'm around her. Should I ignore her? Should I act like nothign happened? Should I act totally pissed?

What do you think?


Thanks for the input! :rock:
Game other girls. Act like nothing has happened but dont speak to her. If she talks to you say that you will speak with the likes of her if she apoligises. Basically to DHV make her qaulify to you.

A good way to demonstrate higher value in future is to use qualifier lines.


EG. Once you have established a rapport and see the relative IOIs say:

You: Your a really nice girl but i could never go out with somelike you.
HB: Why?
You: Well you seem like a bad girl and i only go out with nice girls.
HB: I can be nice! Im not bad!


She has just started a qualifer. She is proving to you....

Hope this helps

Sarge On!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tomatoes said:
Game other girls. Act like nothing has happened but dont speak to her. If she talks to you say that you will speak with the likes of her if she apoligises. Basically to DHV make her qaulify to you.

A good way to demonstrate higher value in future is to use qualifier lines.


EG. Once you have established a rapport and see the relative IOIs say:

You: Your a really nice girl but i could never go out with somelike you.
HB: Why?
You: Well you seem like a bad girl and i only go out with nice girls.
HB: I can be nice! Im not bad!


She has just started a qualifer. She is proving to you....

Hope this helps

Sarge On!

Thanks man.. that helps a lot. Appreciate it!
 

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Embrace said:
And I dont want in her pants because she dissed me

I know... I'm saying that she disrespected you, yet you still want to get into her pants... as opposed to she dissed you, and NOW you want in her pants

Only time I've ever found that a respectable option was when I didn't have any other options...
 

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Ashley Chuckles said:
I know... I'm saying that she disrespected you, yet you still want to get into her pants... as opposed to she dissed you, and NOW you want in her pants

Only time I've ever found that a respectable option was when I didn't have any other options...

I totally agree.

To be honest I wouldnt mind ****in her, cmon now. But its not like I cant just play my game on any other chicks.

I'm deffinitley not only trying to **** her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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