"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Making friends, its what u make it

Julian

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Ive noticed ive closed myself off alot to the possibility of new friendships with people. It stems from a general mistrust of people. I think its good to keep your circle small but at the same time I feel like alot of us find ourselves alone more often then not. And especially all of us plugged into our phones 24/7.

Lots of forever aloners around for sure. More then there were back in the early 2000's id say. Seems more prevalent especially with our technology taking the forefront of social interaction.

Just having a lonely moment here and thinking out loud
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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marmel75

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So is home...

 
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