"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Making friends, its what u make it

Julian

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Ive noticed ive closed myself off alot to the possibility of new friendships with people. It stems from a general mistrust of people. I think its good to keep your circle small but at the same time I feel like alot of us find ourselves alone more often then not. And especially all of us plugged into our phones 24/7.

Lots of forever aloners around for sure. More then there were back in the early 2000's id say. Seems more prevalent especially with our technology taking the forefront of social interaction.

Just having a lonely moment here and thinking out loud
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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marmel75

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So is home...

 
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