making a move

[djjoe]

guys i`ve got a question...

in craigs post here http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=56520

it says if she plays hard to get you should just make a move...

When a woman plays "hard to get", it is a test. Probably the most common of all tests. She's testing you to see if it will affect you. If you let her playing "hard to get" have an obvious effect on you, you will fail her test. However, if you act as if nothing is going on and continue treating her like you normally do and eventually STOP THE TEST BY MAKING A MOVE, then you will pass.

well i don`t understand what "make a move" means...
could somebody please explain it to me as english is not my mother tongue...

thx alot guys, for all of you at this board, you`re helping me alot...

 

[Don_Marko]

Actual quote from the thread

" make a move (number close, date request, kiss, etc.) "

 

[djjoe]

thx for the reply...

one more question:

well, but if she plays hard to get she won`t probably not so easy go out with me...

i mean she will say she has no time, etc...

 

[Don_Marko]

...that's what she wants you to think
She wants somebody who can cut trough her bullsh!t

 

[djjoe]

and then I´d have to be persistant and not give up so easily, right???

but on the other hand I shouldn`t look needy by calling her too often or so...

seems difficult to me...

 

[Don_Marko]

'tis a fine balance young jedi

You wanna have strong frame (mind frame) where see sees you as:

• Strong, confident and sure of himself
• Have social value (cool friends, other girls you can have)
• Understands her (i.e. have rapport) and can show her a great time

And all that jazz... there are volumes written on this on the internet by the way.

Then you go in strong

In the meanwhile try that same recipe for 10 other chicks, hotter than the girl you want right now and you'll get to the promised land

 

[djjoe]

In the meanwhile try that same recipe for 10 other chicks, hotter than the girl you want right now and you'll get to the promised land

ok, thanks alot....