"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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guys i`ve got a question...

in craigs post here http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=56520

it says if she plays hard to get you should just make a move...

When a woman plays "hard to get", it is a test. Probably the most common of all tests. She's testing you to see if it will affect you. If you let her playing "hard to get" have an obvious effect on you, you will fail her test. However, if you act as if nothing is going on and continue treating her like you normally do and eventually STOP THE TEST BY MAKING A MOVE, then you will pass.
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well i don`t understand what "make a move" means...
could somebody please explain it to me as english is not my mother tongue...

thx alot guys, for all of you at this board, you`re helping me alot...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Actual quote from the thread

" make a move (number close, date request, kiss, etc.) "
 
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thx for the reply...

one more question:

well, but if she plays hard to get she won`t probably not so easy go out with me...

i mean she will say she has no time, etc...
 
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...that's what she wants you to think ;)
She wants somebody who can cut trough her bullsh!t
 
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and then I´d have to be persistant and not give up so easily, right???

but on the other hand I shouldn`t look needy by calling her too often or so...

seems difficult to me...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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'tis a fine balance young jedi :p

You wanna have strong frame (mind frame) where see sees you as:
  • Strong, confident and sure of himself
  • Have social value (cool friends, other girls you can have)
  • Understands her (i.e. have rapport) and can show her a great time
And all that jazz... there are volumes written on this on the internet by the way.

Then you go in strong

In the meanwhile try that same recipe for 10 other chicks, hotter than the girl you want right now and you'll get to the promised land
 
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In the meanwhile try that same recipe for 10 other chicks, hotter than the girl you want right now and you'll get to the promised land
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ok, thanks alot....:D
 
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