"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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guys i`ve got a question...

in craigs post here http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=56520

it says if she plays hard to get you should just make a move...

When a woman plays "hard to get", it is a test. Probably the most common of all tests. She's testing you to see if it will affect you. If you let her playing "hard to get" have an obvious effect on you, you will fail her test. However, if you act as if nothing is going on and continue treating her like you normally do and eventually STOP THE TEST BY MAKING A MOVE, then you will pass.
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well i don`t understand what "make a move" means...
could somebody please explain it to me as english is not my mother tongue...

thx alot guys, for all of you at this board, you`re helping me alot...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Actual quote from the thread

" make a move (number close, date request, kiss, etc.) "
 
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thx for the reply...

one more question:

well, but if she plays hard to get she won`t probably not so easy go out with me...

i mean she will say she has no time, etc...
 
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...that's what she wants you to think ;)
She wants somebody who can cut trough her bullsh!t
 
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and then I´d have to be persistant and not give up so easily, right???

but on the other hand I shouldn`t look needy by calling her too often or so...

seems difficult to me...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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'tis a fine balance young jedi :p

You wanna have strong frame (mind frame) where see sees you as:
  • Strong, confident and sure of himself
  • Have social value (cool friends, other girls you can have)
  • Understands her (i.e. have rapport) and can show her a great time
And all that jazz... there are volumes written on this on the internet by the way.

Then you go in strong

In the meanwhile try that same recipe for 10 other chicks, hotter than the girl you want right now and you'll get to the promised land
 
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In the meanwhile try that same recipe for 10 other chicks, hotter than the girl you want right now and you'll get to the promised land
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ok, thanks alot....:D
 
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