"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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guys i`ve got a question...

in craigs post here http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=56520

it says if she plays hard to get you should just make a move...

When a woman plays "hard to get", it is a test. Probably the most common of all tests. She's testing you to see if it will affect you. If you let her playing "hard to get" have an obvious effect on you, you will fail her test. However, if you act as if nothing is going on and continue treating her like you normally do and eventually STOP THE TEST BY MAKING A MOVE, then you will pass.
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well i don`t understand what "make a move" means...
could somebody please explain it to me as english is not my mother tongue...

thx alot guys, for all of you at this board, you`re helping me alot...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Actual quote from the thread

" make a move (number close, date request, kiss, etc.) "
 
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thx for the reply...

one more question:

well, but if she plays hard to get she won`t probably not so easy go out with me...

i mean she will say she has no time, etc...
 
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...that's what she wants you to think ;)
She wants somebody who can cut trough her bullsh!t
 
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and then I´d have to be persistant and not give up so easily, right???

but on the other hand I shouldn`t look needy by calling her too often or so...

seems difficult to me...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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'tis a fine balance young jedi :p

You wanna have strong frame (mind frame) where see sees you as:
  • Strong, confident and sure of himself
  • Have social value (cool friends, other girls you can have)
  • Understands her (i.e. have rapport) and can show her a great time
And all that jazz... there are volumes written on this on the internet by the way.

Then you go in strong

In the meanwhile try that same recipe for 10 other chicks, hotter than the girl you want right now and you'll get to the promised land
 
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In the meanwhile try that same recipe for 10 other chicks, hotter than the girl you want right now and you'll get to the promised land
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ok, thanks alot....:D
 
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