"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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making a girl say HI!

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i wasnt exactly sure how to describe it i guess making them excited to see you like if your at school and a girl you know sees you yells your name and gives you a hug without you saying or doing anything. like what would make them this happy to see you?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm not exactly sure how to get a girl to say hi either. Girls who know me just seem to say hi to me randomly, I don't even have to know them very well.
 
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guayaballer said:
i wasnt exactly sure how to describe it i guess making them excited to see you like if your at school and a girl you know sees you yells your name and gives you a hug without you saying or doing anything. like what would make them this happy to see you?
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Just establish a good relationship. Be charming, and likable; you'll get that attention.

It's that simple.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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GaryUranga said:
explain:rolleyes:
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We're all cool people. I realized how amazing I could be when I'm not shy based on the results of my approaches.

So, if you can overcome that shyness, and reveal your true-self you'll find people who like, and respect you, for YOU. There will always be 'that' person who doesn't like the other. It just happens; so what? Fu*k them; fu*k her.

As long as you let nothing affect that positive attitude, and just move on with your life... it's all good.

Just go out there to have a good time; people will notice and want to be with you.

If you establish a good relationship with people... they will enthusiastically greet you in the hallway. It's because they think you're cool, and they're showing the fact that you're friends with you by being loud.

All you need to be is likable; and to be likable, you just need to know how to enjoy yourself - no one likes to be around a depressed kid.
 
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Girls i know at school acknowledge me, a few choose to yell my name out as soon as they see me, most are content with a simple hi.

I dont know about the USA but in the UK people dont tend to hug in school.

If i see the girls out of school we hug, but in school, no one does it.
 
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Contender said:
We're all cool people. I realized how amazing I could be when I'm not shy based on the results of my approaches.

So, if you can overcome that shyness, and reveal your true-self you'll find people who like, and respect you, for YOU. There will always be 'that' person who doesn't like the other. It just happens; so what? Fu*k them; fu*k her.

As long as you let nothing affect that positive attitude, and just move on with your life... it's all good.

Just go out there to have a good time; people will notice and want to be with you.

If you establish a good relationship with people... they will enthusiastically greet you in the hallway. It's because they think you're cool, and they're showing the fact that you're friends with you by being loud.

All you need to be is likable; and to be likable, you just need to know how to enjoy yourself - no one likes to be around a depressed kid.
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Exactly.
 
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if you ring a bell and give a dog a steak five times in a row, whenever you ring the bell the dog will start salivitate. it associates the bell with steaks.

if youre with a girl and its exciting and she smiles alot, when she sees you shes going to get excited and smile alot and be happy to see you.
 
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dannowillbookem said:
if you ring a bell and give a dog a steak five times in a row, whenever you ring the bell the dog will start salivitate. it associates the bell with steaks.

if youre with a girl and its exciting and she smiles alot, when she sees you shes going to get excited and smile alot and be happy to see you.
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and if you ring a bell and give a girl a steak five times in a row, whenever you ring the bell the girl will start salivitate.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I wonder if you can get that asociation to be related to taking their clothers off... hmmmm

thats interesting, contender, I actually just get stares from girls (good stares) but nothing else
 
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check_mate_kid_uk said:
and if you ring a bell and give a girl a steak five times in a row, whenever you ring the bell the girl will start salivitate.
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depends if your meat is big enough.
 
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