"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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making a girl say HI!

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i wasnt exactly sure how to describe it i guess making them excited to see you like if your at school and a girl you know sees you yells your name and gives you a hug without you saying or doing anything. like what would make them this happy to see you?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm not exactly sure how to get a girl to say hi either. Girls who know me just seem to say hi to me randomly, I don't even have to know them very well.
 
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guayaballer said:
i wasnt exactly sure how to describe it i guess making them excited to see you like if your at school and a girl you know sees you yells your name and gives you a hug without you saying or doing anything. like what would make them this happy to see you?
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Just establish a good relationship. Be charming, and likable; you'll get that attention.

It's that simple.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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GaryUranga said:
explain:rolleyes:
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We're all cool people. I realized how amazing I could be when I'm not shy based on the results of my approaches.

So, if you can overcome that shyness, and reveal your true-self you'll find people who like, and respect you, for YOU. There will always be 'that' person who doesn't like the other. It just happens; so what? Fu*k them; fu*k her.

As long as you let nothing affect that positive attitude, and just move on with your life... it's all good.

Just go out there to have a good time; people will notice and want to be with you.

If you establish a good relationship with people... they will enthusiastically greet you in the hallway. It's because they think you're cool, and they're showing the fact that you're friends with you by being loud.

All you need to be is likable; and to be likable, you just need to know how to enjoy yourself - no one likes to be around a depressed kid.
 
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Girls i know at school acknowledge me, a few choose to yell my name out as soon as they see me, most are content with a simple hi.

I dont know about the USA but in the UK people dont tend to hug in school.

If i see the girls out of school we hug, but in school, no one does it.
 
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Contender said:
We're all cool people. I realized how amazing I could be when I'm not shy based on the results of my approaches.

So, if you can overcome that shyness, and reveal your true-self you'll find people who like, and respect you, for YOU. There will always be 'that' person who doesn't like the other. It just happens; so what? Fu*k them; fu*k her.

As long as you let nothing affect that positive attitude, and just move on with your life... it's all good.

Just go out there to have a good time; people will notice and want to be with you.

If you establish a good relationship with people... they will enthusiastically greet you in the hallway. It's because they think you're cool, and they're showing the fact that you're friends with you by being loud.

All you need to be is likable; and to be likable, you just need to know how to enjoy yourself - no one likes to be around a depressed kid.
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Exactly.
 
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if you ring a bell and give a dog a steak five times in a row, whenever you ring the bell the dog will start salivitate. it associates the bell with steaks.

if youre with a girl and its exciting and she smiles alot, when she sees you shes going to get excited and smile alot and be happy to see you.
 
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dannowillbookem said:
if you ring a bell and give a dog a steak five times in a row, whenever you ring the bell the dog will start salivitate. it associates the bell with steaks.

if youre with a girl and its exciting and she smiles alot, when she sees you shes going to get excited and smile alot and be happy to see you.
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and if you ring a bell and give a girl a steak five times in a row, whenever you ring the bell the girl will start salivitate.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I wonder if you can get that asociation to be related to taking their clothers off... hmmmm

thats interesting, contender, I actually just get stares from girls (good stares) but nothing else
 
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check_mate_kid_uk said:
and if you ring a bell and give a girl a steak five times in a row, whenever you ring the bell the girl will start salivitate.
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depends if your meat is big enough.
 
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