"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Make out with another girl in front of the one you like good/bad?

Groverz

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Title says most of it, if there is a girl you are interested in, would making out with another girl in front of her be a good or bad thing? Anyone ever done that with success?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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RangerMIke

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It depends. But it is always a good idea to do whatever you want. You want to make out with her then do it. Because if you don't you will not be completely honest.

Don't do it because you think it will make her jealous... the woman you are trying to impress will pick up on this and know what you are doing.
 

El Payaso

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Yes, it depends.

Let's say the girl you like is named Mary.

The only reason to make out with another girl in front of Mary is if you have approached Mary and gotten a "no" or things with her aren't going anywhere.
 

mrgoodstuff

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It depends. But it is always a good idea to do whatever you want. You want to make out with her then do it. Because if you don't you will not be completely honest.

Don't do it because you think it will make her jealous... the woman you are trying to impress will pick up on this and know what you are doing.
Right, encourage the other woman to make out with you in front of Mary by adjusting your body language and what you say to her. That WILL be impressive.
 
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