"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Make out with another girl in front of the one you like good/bad?

Groverz

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 28, 2013
Messages
134
Reaction score
11
Age
45
Location
Rochester, NY
Title says most of it, if there is a girl you are interested in, would making out with another girl in front of her be a good or bad thing? Anyone ever done that with success?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

RangerMIke

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 23, 2014
Messages
4,764
Reaction score
7,981
Location
USA, Louisiana
It depends. But it is always a good idea to do whatever you want. You want to make out with her then do it. Because if you don't you will not be completely honest.

Don't do it because you think it will make her jealous... the woman you are trying to impress will pick up on this and know what you are doing.
 

El Payaso

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 16, 2014
Messages
3,621
Reaction score
2,624
Yes, it depends.

Let's say the girl you like is named Mary.

The only reason to make out with another girl in front of Mary is if you have approached Mary and gotten a "no" or things with her aren't going anywhere.
 

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2015
Messages
17,582
Reaction score
11,942
Location
DFW, TX
It depends. But it is always a good idea to do whatever you want. You want to make out with her then do it. Because if you don't you will not be completely honest.

Don't do it because you think it will make her jealous... the woman you are trying to impress will pick up on this and know what you are doing.
Right, encourage the other woman to make out with you in front of Mary by adjusting your body language and what you say to her. That WILL be impressive.
 
Top