Groverz
Don Juan
Title says most of it, if there is a girl you are interested in, would making out with another girl in front of her be a good or bad thing? Anyone ever done that with success?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Make out with another girl in front of the one you like good/bad?
- Thread starter Groverz
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
It depends. But it is always a good idea to do whatever you want. You want to make out with her then do it. Because if you don't you will not be completely honest.
Don't do it because you think it will make her jealous... the woman you are trying to impress will pick up on this and know what you are doing.
Don't do it because you think it will make her jealous... the woman you are trying to impress will pick up on this and know what you are doing.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Right, encourage the other woman to make out with you in front of Mary by adjusting your body language and what you say to her. That WILL be impressive.