Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Make out with another girl in front of the one you like good/bad?

Groverz

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Title says most of it, if there is a girl you are interested in, would making out with another girl in front of her be a good or bad thing? Anyone ever done that with success?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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RangerMIke

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It depends. But it is always a good idea to do whatever you want. You want to make out with her then do it. Because if you don't you will not be completely honest.

Don't do it because you think it will make her jealous... the woman you are trying to impress will pick up on this and know what you are doing.
 

El Payaso

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Yes, it depends.

Let's say the girl you like is named Mary.

The only reason to make out with another girl in front of Mary is if you have approached Mary and gotten a "no" or things with her aren't going anywhere.
 

mrgoodstuff

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It depends. But it is always a good idea to do whatever you want. You want to make out with her then do it. Because if you don't you will not be completely honest.

Don't do it because you think it will make her jealous... the woman you are trying to impress will pick up on this and know what you are doing.
Right, encourage the other woman to make out with you in front of Mary by adjusting your body language and what you say to her. That WILL be impressive.
 
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