Make one feel comfortable.

[Rainman4707]

If you're approaching new people or people who don't know you very well, what you want to do is make them feel comfortable.
They don't know much about you, so they will be a little cagey.
Lean back, relax & try to make them feel comfortable around you. Be nice, at first. Be`geniunly interested in them, their day.

Then when you notice her/his body language change, that's when you can get your game going & go for your goal

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-attraction-doctor/201105/is-the-best-way-flirt-someone-new

 

[ubercat]

Thank RM

I absolutely ****ing love tactics that are backed up by science. They go in my small 'try this first' pile.