glass half full
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I have seen and heard this so many times from women, what the hell do they mean when they say they want a man to "make her surrender?"
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
"make me surrender"
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
She wants you to play the game and pursue her in a dominant way. If you show dominance she will allow you to "catch" her.
You need to flip the script and with your dominance cause her to pursue you.
A girl like this is usually very submissive in nature.
You need to flip the script and with your dominance cause her to pursue you.
A girl like this is usually very submissive in nature.
Colossus
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I think it's SO hot when a girl talks like that.
It's easy to do, too. Just be persistent, aggressive, and don't take no for an answer!! Light resistance = ok, heavy resistance = not ok. But if she is asking you to TAKE her, then you aren't going to get heavy resistance.
There is nothing more satisfying than TAKING a woman who WANTS to be taken.
It's easy to do, too. Just be persistent, aggressive, and don't take no for an answer!! Light resistance = ok, heavy resistance = not ok. But if she is asking you to TAKE her, then you aren't going to get heavy resistance.
There is nothing more satisfying than TAKING a woman who WANTS to be taken.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
ALL women crave this, and this is precisely why women will TEST you.
They're testing the strength of your frame. They HOPE you pass, meaning that you're frame is stronger than her frame.
Think of it as evolutionary programming. Women who didn't have this "features" pretty much gave it up to everybody, and their kids didn't have much of a chance.
OTOH, women who historically put up a "fight" ensures their kids were fathered by aggressive types and would have more of a chance.
When a woman says she wants a man to "make her surrender" she's just putting words to an unconscious feeling that ALL women have, whether they know it or not.
They're testing the strength of your frame. They HOPE you pass, meaning that you're frame is stronger than her frame.
Think of it as evolutionary programming. Women who didn't have this "features" pretty much gave it up to everybody, and their kids didn't have much of a chance.
OTOH, women who historically put up a "fight" ensures their kids were fathered by aggressive types and would have more of a chance.
When a woman says she wants a man to "make her surrender" she's just putting words to an unconscious feeling that ALL women have, whether they know it or not.
Aristippus
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Make her surrender to what? First, women don't have a mental picture of Peewee Herman when they say this. They have a mental picture of a man they are attracted to. First, be attractive or find a woman that finds you attractive, then make it easy for her to surrender to her own desires.glass half full said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
disgustipated
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Whenever I've given a girl a real good thrashing in the bedroom, the truth always comes out. Stuff like, that's what girls really want, to be manhandled thrown around and fuuucked senseless. They've even told the dirty lil secrets of their girlfriends sex lives.....Tamara is sooo frustrated with Ron because he can't fuuuck her the way she wants it.....ROUGH and HARD. They wanna be dominated and that begins with resistance and then surrender. Not all the time, but often enough. When a gf is acting up, ONE of my self evaluating things I go to is am I not putting in down in the bedroom enough...why does she have energy to be a *****.
( . )( . )
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Her: Make me surrender
You: Make me a sandwich
I realise women are gagging to be lead, especially among this sea of emasculated faggots who have let them down, if not lead by a man then lead by big daddy alfa government. But damn that sounds corny. I'd be tempted to say the above, and probably would if I actually heard a chick verbalize that.
Either that or "That's enough 50 shades of grey for you" or the old faithful....... "Gay".
Colossus
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Something I've learned from all my lays and relationships is that women LOVE to be TAKEN. They love to be USED for sex. I'm serious. Especially if they are highly attracted to you and they trust you....it's like all their submissive fantasies come out.
Things that we are told are "vulgar" or "degrading", like gagging them with your c0ck, cumming on their faces, rough hair pulling and aggressive sex----many of them actually love it. They just don't want to appear like sluts, so they shame this sort of thing publicly. But deep down....they all want a guy who totally manhandles them in bed.
Things that we are told are "vulgar" or "degrading", like gagging them with your c0ck, cumming on their faces, rough hair pulling and aggressive sex----many of them actually love it. They just don't want to appear like sluts, so they shame this sort of thing publicly. But deep down....they all want a guy who totally manhandles them in bed.
PlayHer Man
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glass half full said:
Who gives a f*ck :crackup: :crackup:
( . )( . ) said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.