Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Will probably get her attention .. answering back I don't know might not be the right response though.Originally posted by DJnoob
Next time you see a chick that you know,
say something like "Hey, you look different"
and don't give out anymore details after that.
Chick: What do you mean by I look different
You: I'dont know
What you guys think?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I actually have used this before... I met this girl over via facebook, and when I met her the first time she was dressed plainly and her hair wasn't quite done up. I only had a few minutes to talk to her, and told her we should meet up next time I was in town.Next time you see a chick that you know, say something like "Hey, you look different" and don't give out anymore details after that.
Just like an AFC.Originally posted by dyce
we all know how girls break down every word that a guy they're interested in says