"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Make her go "What did he mean by that"
- Thread starter DJnoob
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
AIR-PILOT
Don Juan
Will probably get her attention .. answering back I don't know might not be the right response though.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Funny you mention it:
I actually have used this before... I met this girl over via facebook, and when I met her the first time she was dressed plainly and her hair wasn't quite done up. I only had a few minutes to talk to her, and told her we should meet up next time I was in town.
2 weeks later I came to town and invited her to attend a play with me. When I went to pick her up, she walked into the room and - well, this time she was dressed to the nines, her hair was done up, and she looked much better than when I first had met her. I took one look at her and said, "hey, you look... different..." She looked confused for a second, then said, "thank you," and smiled. From then on, the date flowed pretty well.
dyce
Don Juan
we all know how girls break down every word that a guy they're interested in says
Vibe
Don Juan
Just like an AFC.
~Vibe~