She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Will probably get her attention .. answering back I don't know might not be the right response though.Originally posted by DJnoob
Next time you see a chick that you know,
say something like "Hey, you look different"
and don't give out anymore details after that.
Chick: What do you mean by I look different
You: I'dont know
What you guys think?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I actually have used this before... I met this girl over via facebook, and when I met her the first time she was dressed plainly and her hair wasn't quite done up. I only had a few minutes to talk to her, and told her we should meet up next time I was in town.Next time you see a chick that you know, say something like "Hey, you look different" and don't give out anymore details after that.
Just like an AFC.Originally posted by dyce
we all know how girls break down every word that a guy they're interested in says