"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mojo16

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i took a girl ive been seeing for a few months to a carnival a few days ago,
while we were there i showed her who was the boss of the
open-mouthed-ball-swallowing-clowns (me), by winning her a totally awesome furry green teddy bear wearing a super gay tophat.

anyways, when i dropped her home, we sat and talked in my car for a while
and i noticed she was absent mindedly holding the bear just below her nose
as if she was smelling it.

I asked her if the bear smelt any good, she laughed and said not really, so i
grabbed it off her and sprayed it with my Cologne? Aftershave?

Today I got a text from her saying she has dreamed about me for the last 3 nights because she can "smell me in her sleep". mmm success.

So its that simple. Follow these steps:

1. Find a girl.
2. Take her to a carnival.
3. Participate in the noble sport of ClownBallSwallowing.
4. Select teddy bear as your prize.
5. Spray bear with your Cologne/Aftershave.

Tip: Make sure your girl has known you long enough to associate your Cologne or Aftershave with you.

Good Luck.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mojo16

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oh man i was pretty drunk when i typed this...

but ah yeah i wasnt kidding, how you smell is one of the most important things to a girl, if you can make her brain associate your unique smell with feeling good and having fun, you are making great progress with her.

obviously my example is a little obscure, but im sure you can find a way to make something similar happen.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Got anything that doesn't involve clowns?

It is actually a good idea to give her something to keep that smells like you. A little subtle squirt of cologne on that item goes a long way.
 

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Mojo I really like this. I have heard that smell is closely related to memory. Ever think of your childhood when a spice reminds you of mamas cooking?
 
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