"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Make a move or not?

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I have a question, just wanting to hear some opinions.
Theres a girl I know, me and my best mate have become friends with her and her friend. I'm not in the "friend zone" though - theres always flirting and sexual tension when we are together. This girl's friend has actually told me that the girl likes me, however, she has a boyfriend of 2-3 months.

The 4 of us are meeting at a pub tomorrow, and the 2 girls are goin to be sleeping at my house. I have only one double bed so I plan for the 3 of us to sleep in the same bed. The question is, should I make a move on her? Will she get pissed if I do try it on with her? Cos I know she has a boyfriend. Or if I don't - will she think any less of me (that I'm too scared, or not man enough)?

Your opinions are appreciated,
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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theyre staying at your place after a night at the bar

u should go for both of em at the same time
 
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If you're not married and you're not f**king her, a woman has no business sleeping in your bed. Get 'em heated up first, though. Don't just "spring it."
 
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